So the big update.....
 Today Cully sat in a chair on the other side of the room watching his favorite Barney video. He glanced over my way and saw me sitting in the couch. He got up and walked over to me never letting his eyes stray from the TV.  He lifted himself up onto my lap and continued watching his show.
 If you can understand the value of this then you can understand the smile I have on my face while I put my head to the pillow tonight.

 Tiny steps are leaps in the right direction